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Korean Woman Seeks Advice on Dating Account With Older Boyfriend, Sparks Heated Debate

Mr.史多利12/12/20246 views 1 min read

Below is a translation of a popular Korean online post about dating account expenses with a boyfriend.

Hello everyone!
I'm 26 years old and have been dating my 31-year-old boyfriend for 200 days!

Since our 100th day, we've each contributed 150,000 Korean Won (KRW) monthly to a dating account. As we're in a long-distance relationship and only see each other once or twice a week, 300,000 KRW might seem substantial. However, if we have lunch and dinner together or go out for an entire weekend, the money usually runs out by mid-month. After that, I typically pay for lunch, and my boyfriend pays for dinner.

This is where I'm a bit concerned ㅠㅠ

I'm a new employee, and my monthly salary is around 2.3 million KRW. My boyfriend has been working for five years as an assistant manager at a mid-sized company. While I'm not sure of his exact salary, I estimate it's in the mid-to-high 3 million KRW range (between 3.5 and 4 million KRW).

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After mentioning to friends that we each contribute 150,000 KRW, some older friends suggested my boyfriend should contribute an extra 50,000 KRW. This made me wonder if he should indeed pay more. But given my personality, I wouldn't ask him directly ㅠㅠ.

Do you think contributing 150,000 KRW each, as we do now, is appropriate?

Image Source: NatePann
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Below are translated comments from the Korean online forum:

1. There are still women who date men like this? I've never experienced it. Even with younger men, they pay more. Why is it like this with an older man? If you can filter out men who are stingy with money, your chances of meeting a normal man will greatly increase.
2. A man would never split dating expenses equally with a woman he truly loves.
3. The man should pay an extra 50,000 to 100,000 KRW!

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Mr.史多利

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