Woman Says Mother-in-Law Watched Home Cameras After Husband Secretly Shared Login

At some point, my mother-in-law started watching the security cameras in our home. When I asked my husband about it, he initially said he knew nothing. But when I asked how she could possibly access our cameras if he had no idea, he finally told me the truth.

According to my husband, his younger sister had also given their mother the username and password for the cameras in her own home so she could watch her grandchild. She then told her older brother to do the same because their mother wanted to see her grandchild. My husband said he thought it was just about the child, assumed she only wanted to see her grandchild, and gave her the information without thinking much about it — while hiding it from me. I was shocked and completely creeped out. She could see everything in the bedroom and living room. It’s not as if only the child lives in this house. I video call her and send her photos almost every day. Do I really have to share our security cameras, too? I think this is way over the line. Starting in October, my husband will be transferred for work, so on weekdays it will be just me and the child at home. Whether my husband is home or not, it seems my mother-in-law has been monitoring us whenever she wants. I’m being watched inside my own home.

My husband says he truly did not think it through, that he was too naive, and that after telling her, he completely forgot about it. He keeps apologizing and saying it is entirely his fault, but I do not know what to do. If he keeps acting this thoughtlessly, I’m afraid things like this will keep happening.

I cannot understand the sister-in-law who suggested this, I understand my husband even less, and I hate my mother-in-law. I just hate everything about this. What should I do? I do not even want to see my husband’s face, so I told him not to come home this week. I disconnected all the cameras and changed the password for Kids Note. I just want to cut everything off completely.

I felt so suffocated that I came here to write this post..ㅠ